Friday Thoughts: Super Speed Style
Today’s Friday Thoughts post is super speedy! But kind of fun. And a little random. 🙂
I literally always have a thousand things I want to tell you guys about (disclaimer: most of these things fall into the category of “very little substance”). Today I picked *just* ten of them to share.
For the recommendations, none of these are sponsored. Just little things I’ve bought and loved and feel like the world needs to know about. Some of the links below are affiliate links for products I’ve bought myself on Amazon, but as always, feel free to shop around for the best deal.
1. Best Lip Stuff Ever.
My friend, Nicole, gave me this amazing lip stuff {aff. link} (chapstick? balm? notreallysure) a while ago, and I have used it daily since. I’m super particular about moisturizing chapstick-type lip products because most of them actually dry out my lips. This Lypsyl magic wonderness is a miracle product. I can’t recommend it highly enough.
2. Best Instagram Account to Follow.
I’m trying to seriously limit my time on social media, and I have been tempted over the years to give it up entirely, but there are a few accounts that keep me motivated to stay, and @sharonsaysso is at the tippity top of the list. She calls herself America’s Government Teacher, which might be a turn off if you’re thinking that leads to a dry and boring social media experience, but her account is extremely scintillating, fun, unbiased, a little random, and incredibly helpful (especially right now wading through all.the.politics.and.chaos.in.the.world).
I love her. She has no idea who I am, but I’d probably fall over in utter starstruck wonder if I ever met her in real life. I am really proud to call myself a #governerd. Any other governerds out there?
3. I Got Myself a New Kitchen Table.
And I love it so much that I’m beginning to enter the phase of life called: Crazy Kitchen Table Lady. I had nothing against my sturdy, resilient, garage sale find table that graced our kitchen for the last 10+ years, but on the side, I was always casually searching for an eventual replacement.
Our neighbors hosted an HOA meeting a few months ago and while everyone else was talking about fixing potholes on our road and nominating absent members for board spots and detailing how many miniature donkeys should be allowed per home lot, I was gazing longingly at the hosts’ kitchen table.
It was eventually hard to ignore my social awkwardness, so they kindly gave me the info for a local store (Impact Imports) that makes custom kitchen tables from huge slabs of wood (our table is made from monkey pod/parota).
Long story short, I went to Impact Imports rustic showroom, fell in love, convinced Brian it was the right thing to do (or rather, told him he didn’t really get a vote), and six weeks later, our new baby, er, I mean, kitchen table was delivered. They were able to use the top part of the slab to make two benches for one side of the table, and I grabbed the other chairs off Amazon (not the highest quality chairs, but totally functional right now).
4. Plant-Based Mosquito Repellent
You guys, the mosquitos are HORRENDOUS on our property this year. Like, full on swarming horrendous. I’m not above using the strong stuff when it’s needed, but being out with our animals several times a day means I like having a more natural alternative (if I’m being honest, it’s largely because I don’t want to smell like deet-infested mosquito repellent all day – even some natural sprays have the worst smell).
I have tried many, many plant-based or natural mosquito repellent sprays, and this one wins hands down {aff. link}. It works well for shorter periods of time (probably wouldn’t be the best for deep country hiking, but for 20-30 minute stints out in the pasture or going on walks, it’s great) and I can’t understate how awesome it is that the smell is hardly there.
On a sidenote, when we want more powerful coverage for hiking or camping or prolonged time outside, we use these mosquito wipes {aff. link}.
Also, last thing because I can’t believe mosquitos are getting this much attention in one of my blog posts, but we also keep this bug bite balm {aff. link} on hand and it relieves the itch from mosquito bites amazingly well (and keeps the younger kids, and ok me too, from kind of melting down about the itchy scratchy issues).
5. Sweet and Sour Candy for Life.
I cannot resist sweet and sour candy. Sour patch kids. Sweet and sour hi-chews. Give it all to me. The tangy and sweet combo is my undoing.
I also happen to really love Australian-style licorice (Wiley Wallaby is one of my favorite brands). When I spied this sweet and sour licorice {aff. link} in a tiny gas station in the wilds of Idaho on a road trip, I was intrigued.
And then I became absolutely obsessed. These little sweet and sour licorice drops are probably my favorite iteration of the sweet and sour candy trend ever. Be forewarned: they are completely irresistible. As in, I have ordered them in bulk and I still have no idea how they disappear so quickly.
6. Speaking of Snacks.
I would be a terrible friend if I didn’t also tell you about my other two favorite snacks. Dill pickle pretzels {aff. link}. And dark chocolate drizzled boomchickapop {aff. link}. Both of these are very worthy distractions in my life right now. And speaking of dill pickle flavors, these spicy dill pickle almonds {aff. link} are also fantastic.
6. Planners: A Very Serious Question.
I may have asked this before and can’t remember (also: too lazy to dig through old posts), BUT, what kind of planning system do you use? I am a hard core paper planner. And I get teased about it mercilessly from family and friends. I cannot convert to the inconvenience of electronic planning.
Now is probably the time to confess I also have a mini obsession with post-it notes and use them endlessly. I enjoy writing in my spiral bound paper planner, and I’m not sure I can give it up, but it has it’s downfalls, of course (doesn’t sync with my family’s calendars, not always convenient to schlep around with me wherever I go).
I’ve used many paper planners over the years. Erin Condren. Personal Planner. Made my own from a template my talented SIL shared with me on InDesign. And currently have Agendio. I’m picky about my paper planners – size, weekly layout, etc. Sigh. It’s a complicated life to be so tied to a paper planner, but I just can’t envision a world without my trusty sidekick planner.
I’m curious: How do you plan your life? Paper? Electronic? Fly by the seat of your pants?
7. PSA: Comfiest Dress in the World.
I can’t adequately describe how loungey and comfy and cute this dress is {aff. link}. Comes in a zillion color/pattern options. I have dark gray. Don’t overthink it. Sizing is generous. Also: IT HAS POCKETS. Need I say more?
8. Have You Seen?
I have heard so much about the K-drama Crash Landing On You. Have you watched it? I would like your opinions on whether it’s worth watching. Based on the subtitles, I wouldn’t be able to multi-task while watching, and that’s a serious concern. And by multi-task, I’m not talking about doing anything super ambitious – more like painting my toenails or filling out my paper planner. #nerdalert (If you have any other must-watch Netflix or Amazon Prime shows, comment below!)
9. Hatch.
Many moons ago I told you that I had been gifted a Hatch Restore alarm system for my birthday from Brian and the kids. Here’s the report several months later. I LOVE IT. My favorite setting is the gradual sunrise wake up as the light brightens on the clock so that I’m not jarred out of sleep by the harsh beeping I’ve experienced the last 40+ years of my life.
I’ve also dabbled in some of the meditations included in the app as I actually try to establish a reasonable bedtime routine, as opposed to attempting to get in bed as freakishly fast as possible when I realize I’ve stayed up way too late again. Anyway, I highly recommend it! It’s operable from an app on my phone, and I’m just warning you that it’s impossible to avoid going down the rabbit hole of wake up sound options. Like, there’s a gazillion variations of wind chimes, and that’s just the beginning.
I’m not affiliated with the company at all, but I really love the clock/alarm. My only complaint is that even on the lowest brightness setting, I feel like the numbers on the clock are a bit too bright in the dark of nighttime, but that doesn’t outweigh my love for everything else about it.
10. School Starts Next Week.
And I am in disbelief that I’ll have three high schoolers, one middle schooler, and one lingering elementary student. Who am I and how did I get here? Also, I feel old. Also, maybe I’ll start exercising again. Also, maybe not. Also, I’m making everyone pack their own lunches this year. Also, I did that last year, so no big change from this lazy mom.
Also, good luck to all you moms and dads and other support personnel for kids everywhere attacking a new school year, whether that be public, private, homeschool, virtual, or whatever. May the force be with us all.
Love your guts! Thanks for being here. I say it all the time, but I mean it: you have no idea how grateful I am for this little corner of the internet where we can hang out together.
Re: comfiest dress in the world
– The back looks quite low, can you wear a regular bra with this?
It is pretty low – I wear a tank underneath.
Amen!!
I got on your website tonight, specifically to find the post where someone recommended “Crash Landing on You”! Oh. MY. Gosh!!!!!! My husband and I watched it together and it had us both in tears at the end. He always resists watching “chick flicks”, but once we got a few episodes in, we turned in to irresponsible adults, giving way to reckless abandon. It is so good. I have been telling everyone I can about it.
Yes, it does take a few episodes to get into, but it is so worth it. Watch it!!
I loved Crash Landing on You! Took me a few episodes to get into it but then I couldn’t get enough!Â
Amen! We finished it last week, and I almost want to watch the last episode again.
HIGHLY recommend Passion Planners! It’s all I’ve used the last 5+ years at work and any time I try to branch out, I regret it almost immediately. We use Outlook calendars at work for meetings/calls, which I colour code for ease of use, but everything gets transferred to my paper planner because I have terrible luck with technology and am scared to lose it LOL
Quick question? The dress is adorable, but does it work with “Gs” I was wondering if the back was too low or the slits too high? I’m looking for a cute comfy church dress and this looks like it would work if my undies aren’t hanging out.
Hey Amber, the dress has an open back, but I wear a lightweight tank with it and it works fine (although may not be great if you don’t like layers 🙂
Paper planner all the way ! Â I work nights and need to see my whole month laid out right in one place. Â Â Â Absolutely love the new kitchen table !!! Â Â Â
Oh thank you for this post! Mosquitos are terrible this year. My grandaughter gets bit no matter what time of day it is and they make her swell. I do not like anything with DEET especially to use on children and you are correct, the smell is gross.Also, glad to know about a new lip balm. I have used Burt’s Bees Wild Cherry forever! It is always good to have another avenue. Your new table is so inviting and just beautiful.
Hunt for the Wilderpeople on Netflix. You will absolutely, definitely love it (and it’s family friendly). You’re the best, Mel!Â
You should try Made On products. They are made with shea butter, coconut oil and beeswax. They even have lip balm with a little color too. Very good natural products.
Liked the post! Good luck with school too
You should look into Made On products. They are made with shea butter, coconut oil and beeswax. There is lip balm, hard lotion, mosquito bar, etc. they are really good
AHEM SPEAKING OF K DRAMASÂ
i happen to love Cheese in the Trap and Weightlifting Fairy Kim Bok JooÂ
Family friendly and my husband, who rolls his eyes at the mere idea of korean anything entertainment, laughed so much at Cheese in the Trap.Â
highly recommend 🙂Â
Also thanks for the licorice recommendation…my husband will LOVE that!!Â
“I love her. She has no idea who I am, but I’d probably fall over in utter starstruck wonder if I ever met her in real life.”
That is exactly how I feel about YOU Mel!! 🙂
omg i agreeeeee mel is amazing
I dont think she knows how many families she has blessed and just how much she has blessed them.Â
Follow Governerd here! Signed up for the fall book club and so excited! Love Sharon says so. I think I found her because of you several months ago and your recommendation. Thanks for your other recommendations! Add the lib balm to my cart! Hope school goes well for you and yours!
Mel, I join your fanclub – thank you for being so wonderful. I recently watched “The English Game” series and was smitten. A+ if you’d like to check it out! ❤️
Total paper planner all the way. I like to open up my datebook and see what is going on for the whole month at a glance. Don’t like little view on phone calendar so I never use it. I’m a caregiver and things change often. I don’t want to mess with electronics. Love my rolling white out! I don’t like how electronics are depended on so much. I use the Office Depot Weekly/Monthly Academic Planner. Same one for years now.
Oooh I somehow missed your Friday post so it was just like a tiny surprise present when I finally spied it today! Lip balm stuff…. Ain’t that the best? I love when other people love the things I love. Um, planners. I’ve never used one but when I see a Lisa Frank notebook or planner it almost makes me want to start. (I never got one as a girl and clearly I’m not over it.) Also, good luck with school… Also, I think I’ll copy you and make my kids make their own lunches.
If there were DEET perfume I would wear it every day of my life if it meant I’d never see a mosquito bite. I’ve wondered about just putting in my water supply every summer after monsoons. My husband calls me his mosquito repellent. That is the end of my sad story. Moving on. Thanks for a fun post, as always. Cheers from sunny AZ. TheresaÂ
I am such a paper planner person. After 2 years of trying to go paper free and then giving in partway through the year and buying a paper planner, I’ve decided to just embrace being a paper person. But it is annoying to be part digital and part paper. Most events are marked digitally  first and then I write down in my planner at the beginning of each week. Not the most ideal, but I love having a place to write my thoughts and to do list. I’ve used the thriving in motherhood planner the last year and a half and I love it!Â
Thank you for all the suggestions! My alarm clock was way too bright, too, and it drove me nuts. Found this cling film and it’s perfect now. 🙂
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B006R0VWSG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
My daughter and I watched the Crash Landing On You. We liked it. It’s a little cheesy, but what Kdrama isn’t? Anyway you can look away and work on things a bit and not have to follow every subtitle, but not for long. You will miss key points and foreshadowing. Also some of the characters’ subtle jokes that make them endearing will be missed. Be prepared to be sucked in. Each episode is long so it’s a commitment. 🙂
I too am a proud #governerd! And I am a proud Franklin Covey planner girl – I have my planner sitting on my counter in the kitchen where I see it all the time. I also use the iCal which I share with my husband so we can see each other’s schedules. Occasionally I forget to put an event in both places, but for the most part, it works for me and has been for years 🙂 We’ve had such a busy summer I am really looking forward to school starting so that I can just focus on my life, rather than keeping track of everyone all day, every day, ha-ha. Good luck to you with your 3 high schoolers – yikes! 🙂 Oh, and the table is beautiful – it’s art and function in one!
I also love Sharon Says So! I heard about her from Emily Ley, whose company Simplified makes my favorite planner and other great organizational items. I think you would love her planners, and they have an academic year planner that starts right now, so you don’t have to wait until January.Â
I remember when Cam was born! I can’t believe I’ve been following you so long!!! What a joy to watch your family grow!
That may be the most beautiful kitchen table that I have ever seen. Wow.
Oh Mel, you are my soul sister! I think I feel about you the way you feel about @sharonsayso:) I came here today for your whole wheat bread recipe and got side tracked adding all of these things to my Amazon wish list. I too am extremely picky about planners. I recently got a Legend planner for the realm of re-working my life and goals. It is intense at first but I love it!
I organize my life by my google calendar. I cannot live without it. It is where I record my exercise (or lack thereof), my meditation and yoga practice and I even put “what’s for dinner” on it so I’m not repeating (I have a husband who likes maybe a dozen things so this lover of food, recipes and cooking has some angst going on. lol) And yes, it has reminders capability on the google calendar app NOT on the web-based calendar. You can thank me later LOL
As far as school goes, I am thanking the Lord above that I am not doing that race anymore. Yes, I was sad when my kids grew up but I do not miss the running around and expense of the school prep!
P.S. Thanks for the info on the plant-based mosquito repellent. I have been using https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01M8GFPXG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
and it works very well.
Yes! Yes! Yes! Watch Crash Landing on You!!!
It was the first Kdrama I watched. I was hesitant about the subtitles at first but got used to it very quickly.
I’ve watched several Kdramas since. Some are very good, and some are not–it’s a huge genre–but Crash Landing is my favorite!
Love your random thoughts, Mel!! I can relate to some – can’t wait to try the lip balm recommendation. I can’t seem to find the right fit for me in that realm.
As far as planners, I keep 2 – redundant, but it works for our family. We use Cozi electronic calendar to keep everybody on the same page for activities. Everybody in our family has access to it, so they can’t ask me when something is. But I personally use a paper/spiral-bound one too from “Blessed Is She” for more details I need to keep for myself. So I do double-enter, but it’s worth the small amount of duplication to keep the questions at bay!
Mel, I love you. That is all.
Yay, fellow Governerd here!! Sharon is the *best*, and I feel like if you did a cooking video with her it might just break the internet. (I have zero idea if she cooks, but she is hilarious aside from being informative, and you are as well, just in different realms.) Your kitchen table is gorgeous!! I’m off to order candy I never knew I needed! 🙂
A BIG thank you for introducing me to SharonSaySo a few months ago!!! She has absolutely changed the way I think and feel about politics. She is an absolute Godsend.Â
The K-drama “Start-Up” on Netflix was so so good too. It was clean and just the kind of chick-flick this mom-of-all-boys needed!!
Love your blog!! Thanks for being here Mel!!
Governerds unite! Thanks for sharing your random thoughts! Excited to watch the Netflix recommendation and we have had the worst mosquitos this year too! Going to try those stickers someone mentioned in the comments. I have a clock similar to the hatch – they are pretty sweet. Thanks for making me laugh and all you put into your blog. Good luck with school and thanks for the catch up “chat”. 🙂
Crash landing on you is AMAZING!!! It was so fun to watch- it is definitely worth watching/reading!  Just do it, you won’t regret it!Â
Crash Landing is worth EVERY minute of staring at the TV and reading each word. It is impossible not to LOVE.
Hey Mel! Thanks for the recommendations, particularly the sour candy. We LOVE sour candy and haven’t tried those yet. Also, your kids are getting so big and grown up! I hardly recognize them. Hugs to you and Brian!
Mel, you are just a really welcome dose of positivity and light. But when I hop onto your site for a quick recipe search, I wind up diving in to whatever your latest post is and spending more time here than planned. Kinda like Target!
Thank you ffor your authenticity and God bless you and your family.