Why I Went to Africa
I’ve mentioned a time or two that Brian and I had the opportunity to travel to Africa earlier this summer. I’ve been waiting for just the right time tell you about it.
Now is the time! And I am so excited. Like, my stomach is in knots kind of excited.
This trip to Africa, well, it was life-changing in the most non-cliche sense of the word, I promise. And I’m not saying that just because I was able to taste a cocoa bean fresh off the tree (it was squishy and slimy, FYI).
Being in Africa literally changed my perspective on so many facets of my life. I knew it would be amazing, I just didn’t realize quite how impactful it would be. The 30+ hours traveling home, I kept grabbing my pen and notebook from my bag and writing down thoughts and impressions about how to reorder my life when I got home. There’s a whole set of pictures/stories surrounding the overall craziness and excitement of us actually being in Africa (I could never quite get over how the people there carry everything so gracefully on their heads) – including what we ate! – but today I want to talk about the main reason we were there.
I’ve agonized over this post, hoping that as I try to give you a summary of the incredible people we met, the feelings and passion I have for what’s happening there in Ghana will come through despite the somewhat sterile environment of the internet (I wish you could just all be in my living room right now watching my slide show of pictures; of course I don’t blame you for that little jiggle of relief you are feeling right this second for avoiding the 1000+ picture marathon – you are forgiven).
Over the last nearly decade of blogging, I have been blessed beyond measure as this website has grown beyond what I ever could have expected. Truly. What began as a personal blog with maybe two visitors a month (me and my mom!) now has millions of readers worldwide. I feel so blessed and sometimes still a bit shell shocked. Thank you for being here and continuing to support me through your readership and kindness.
For a long while, I’ve wanted to find a meaningful way to give back – to somehow express my gratefulness for all that I’ve been blessed with. This trip to Africa was timely in so many ways (personally and professionally), and there’s no question in my mind that right now, this is my way to give back and raise awareness for a cause that has become so dear to me.
Why We Went
Brian and I flew over to Africa with a non-profit organization that we’ve known about for several years: Mentors International.
In a nutshell, Mentors goal is to end poverty through self-reliance.
In an expanded nutshell, Mentors is changing lives by providing education and microloans to clients (90% are women!) who want desperately to change their circumstances (and in most cases, to be able to educate and empower their children and grandchildren). Mentors operates in many countries, including Honduras, Guatemala and the Philippines, and they’ve done so for many years. However, their work in Ghana just started last year (thanks to doTerra’s Healing Hands Foundation).
Brian and I had the unique opportunity to travel to Ghana and see firsthand how this microloan program has affected and benefitted hundreds of Ghanaians in the year and a half they’ve been in operation. Because most Ghanaians don’t have access to viable financial solutions (we’re talking banks that charge over 70% interest – yikes!), many of Mentors’ clients in Ghana have doubled and even tripled their income with the help of the microloans. What’s absolutely astounding? Mentors Ghana has a 100% payback rate throughout all of their clients. That’s insane! (In a very awesome way.)
Those facts are all pretty cool, but don’t hold a candle to what it meant and felt like to meet these incredible men and women in person.
While we were there, several hundred Mentors’ clients gathered for a cultural celebration one of the first days we were traveling through the villages outside of Accra (near Abomosu); these joyous people wanted simply to say thank you to Mentors for how the microloan program has changed their lives for the good. Look at all the gorgeous dresses! While many of these people live in extreme poverty, they still dressed up in their finest clothes to come celebrate.
I can honestly say I felt truly honored to be among them; I’ve never met a prouder, happier people in my entire life.
The minute they realized I was there to take millions of pictures, they went absolutely crazy (especially when they figured out they could see their pretty faces on the back of my camera after I took the picture – it was awesome).
Mostly, today, I want to tell you about two of the remarkable women I met in Ghana. I could tell you dozens and dozens of stories, but these are the two that have stayed with me most of all.
Naomi
This lady! She’s inspiring beyond words. Naomi lives in the tiny village of Apampatia and is serious and soft-spoken. When Naomi was a small child, she developed an infection that crippled her legs and back. In Africa (and anywhere), this poses a lot of difficulties, but later in life, Naomi found herself as a single mother responsible financially for her daughter, several grandchildren, and her own ailing mother. She literally had no one to fall back on.
Desperate to find a way to provide, Naomi, with the help of her daughter, approached several banks in Ghana asking for a loan to start a business selling drinks in her little village. All of them said no. They were clear that they didn’t feel she would be a suitable client in light of her physical disability. Incidentally, most banks in Ghana charge upwards of 70% interest on a given loan with additional collateral – a daunting financing prospect to say the least.
Months later, Naomi’s daughter heard that a group called Mentors was holding business education meetings in a nearby village. She went and came back with the news that Naomi could apply for a loan through Mentors if she attended the education classes. After her daughter communicated with Mentors about Naomi’s desire for a loan, the loan officers decided to come to Naomi and began meeting with her one-on-one in order for her to prepare to receive a loan.
That was last year.
Naomi’s first loan was for the equivalent of $125 US dollars. She repaid it in half the time (three months instead of six months). She used the loan to stock her small shop with drinks for her village. She has since received several subsequent loans from Mentors – and she has paid them all back in full. Among other things, she’s used the money to buy a secondhand refrigerator so that not only can the villagers buy a drink, they can now get a cold drink (a novelty in many parts of Africa).
Now, she’s using the loan money to provide mobile banking to her remote village (this is the way many Ghanaians pay their bills and receive money, even in the villages). Once shunned by her own community, Naomi’s shop is truly at the heart and center of her village. She is a leader in her community and even employs two other villagers, in addition to her daughter, to work for her.
When asked how Mentors has helped her, Naomi told us that no one else ever believed in her and her ability to be succeed, but Mentors did (and still does). She said: “If I can change the way I live, anyone can.” And I believe that. I left feeling so inspired by Naomi’s courage and filled with gratitude that Mentors decided to give her a chance. Not only has she changed her own life, she now has a way to send her children and grandchildren to school and hopefully end their family’s circle of poverty.
Gladys
If I had to pick a favorite Mentors’ client (that would kind of be like choosing a favorite child), it would be Gladys. Her soft-spoken but determined manner touched my heart. Gladys lives in the village of Sankubenase.
A refugee from Nigeria, Gladys never finished her basic education because her father wanted her to do house work instead of go to school. When her husband died, Gladys found herself completely alone to care for her family. In addition, she had a sister who also died, leaving Gladys to care for her niece, as well as her own children.
Working on credit from Ghanaian banks, Gladys opened her shop to sell homemade bread. She had been operating it for years without making hardly any profit, thanks to those exorbitantly high interest rates, leaving her and her family in desperate circumstances. When she found out about Mentors, she couldn’t wait to start attending business education classes and apply for a loan.
Mentors taught her to manage and save her money. After receiving her first loan, the equivalent of around $100 US dollars, and with the advice from the Mentors’ loan officers, Gladys began to sell drinks with her famous bread. Villagers began expressing an interest in chilled drinks, so she used savings and a second loan for a refrigerator and more flour for bread.
Gladys’ bread now supplies six villages! It is literally known for kilometers around that she has the best bread in all of Africa (Brian will attest to this; he downed a whole loaf by himself). Gladys makes a whopping 1,200 loaves of bread every couple of days and always sells out. Currently, she, along with the villagers she employs, bakes the bread in an old mud oven. Her dream is to save enough money to buy a more modern oven and open a larger shop. She is also determined to someday mill her own flour to avoid having to go to town to buy it – and she wants to be able to employ more villagers.
Gladys was visibly emotional as she spoke to us. You could tell from every word she spoke that she was humbled and grateful for Mentors and the chance they’ve given her to be a successful business woman. She expressed several times how thankful she is for the business education classes Mentors provides and how much they’ve taught her. Her life was destitute and hopeless before but now, she has so much hope for the future.
When asked what she would say to those people who have donated to the Mentors Ghana project, Gladys, with tears in her eyes, said “I would say may God bless you. May God bless you as he did Abraham with infinite blessings. I would say this if I could see these people.” No pleas for more money, no requests that people continue to donate and give, just a simple hope that God would bless them.
This faithful, resilient woman inspired me in so many ways.
So Many Others
I could tell you about so many others – like Agnes who wakes up at 4 a.m. every morning to sell pastries so she can send her younger siblings to school and Alomenu who was living off of 75 cents a day when all she wanted and needed was $50 to set up a roadside table to sell bread and oatmeal to provide for her child and mother – the number of determined women (and men) who have risen out of poverty already with Mentors Ghana is remarkable.
There’s more than 800 more stories from clients in Ghana that could be shared; each are equally inspiring. The sobering fact is there are hundreds more men and women in Ghana waiting to change their lives in the same way through Mentors (literally, they are on the waiting list) but they can’t do so until more funding becomes available through donations.
I left Ghana feeling immensely grateful for all the privileges I have that often go unnoticed because they are just there. Clean water. A full pantry. A house with windows and more than one room. It’s still hard for me to understand and come to terms with the disparity between my life and the lives of these inspiring but destitute villagers that I met.
The amount of money I regularly spend at Costco is the average starting loan for a Mentors client in Ghana. About $125 US dollars. That’s enough to completely change a life of one of Mentors’ clients in Ghana! That thought still kind of blows my mind – and has made me try to be much more intentional and aware of how I spend (and give) my money.
A dollar is not just a dollar to Mentors.
One dollar will give back hundreds of times as it is loaned out and repaid. Enyonam Mensah-Dotsey, the incredible man who leads Mentors Ghana, emphasized this to us many times. One dollar can do so much in Ghana and will continue to give over and over and over. I’ve seen it in action there in the villages of Ghana – it is truly amazing what these dollars are doing.
Can we help? Can we make a difference in Ghana?
I think we can. Actually, I know we can.
How amazing would it be if Mel’s Kitchen Cafe readers banded together to provide 100 more loans for villagers across poverty-stricken Africa?
We are all in different circumstances with different abilities to help, but if you are able, will you give?
Even a dollar.
Five dollars.
Fifty dollars.
Every dollar will make a difference to someone in Africa waiting to change their life with the help of Mentors International – and they can’t do it without our help. If every single one of my readers gave ONE DOLLAR to Mentors, the total would skyrocket into the millions (insert major goose bumps).
I think we can handle 100 new loans. Don’t you?
That’s $10,000. It makes me incredibly nervous to even suggest it…to throw that amount out in the wide open and not reach the goal, but I believe in us as a community of caring people who want to make a difference, and I think we can do this. 100% of the donations will go to Mentors Ghana. Yessss!
UPDATE 10/16: It’s unbelievable to actually type this but over the last several months, between the donations here and with the sale of my eCookbook, you have generously donated just over $50,000 to Mentors! Can you even believe it?? I am excited to share some stories of what your money has done. Stay tuned!
And this is just the beginning of how we are going to give back. Check back tomorrow; I can’t wait to tell you more. I have a feeling it is going to be incredible.
How did I miss that you went to Ghana?? I think I must’ve started following your blog shortly after you took this trip! I love your blog, everyone thinks I’m such a good cook and I attribute it all to Mel! My kids ask me all the time before we eat, “Is this mel’s?” Cuz they’ll be unsure if it’s not!
Anyway, I love this post! My friend moved with her family (with 5 of their 10 kids!) to Kumasi, Ghana in 2017 and started up Families Mentoring Families. They work to provide literacy centers with real books and also do microloans. Then they felt like they needed to open a Family Restoration Center and now they work with Operation Underground Railroad to help restore families who have been separated due to human trafficking.
I was so blessed to go with my two teenage daughters to Ghana in 2019, and we were able to help raise $25k for the center. My friend has now been living there for 4 years and they were so thrilled to hear kumasi was getting an LDS temple.
I felt the same as you -that this was a life-changing trip, and I loved how faithful, happy and god-loving the people were, despite their poor circumstances.
Mel,
We need to talk.
I am a fan of your blog. I use it all the time! But this post especially caught my attention. I travel to Sankubanase this August. The foundation I volunteer for is taking safe water education to vulnerable populations. Even when water access is improved contamination is rampant and the sweet people still die of waterborne disease. We work with World Joy Ghana and founder of LDS Charities Ike Ferguson.
Part of our program is to invite charity driven individuals to travel with us. Their contribution supports the safe water program for a whole year in the villages we visit. We are trying to recruit volunteers for our Sankubanase, Ekorso, and Assamama trips coming up this year. We have a active thriving program in Wekpeti and wish to expand into the rest of the Atiwa West District.
One thing we are definitely lacking is great images to use for social media and for a recruitment video we are creating. You also have an awesome following, some of whom may be interested in helping the people of Ghana and other parts of the world. Can you contact me?
I would love to see if we can collaborate to bring health and progress to this and other villages.
Thank you so much!
While you were in Ghana did you visit Tamale and is it a poor area of Ghana? I have a very good friend who lives in Tamale and would love to know more about Tamale. Thank you
I didn’t visit that area – sorry!
Yay for Ghana! I went two years ago to visit my parents on their mission. I was able to bring all of my family, and we had such a beautiful experience. Wondered what part you went to (did I miss that?) We went to Accra and Cape Coast, I’ve got lots of posts about it on my site. Such loving people there.
Hey Kristen – we went to the same areas as you! But we also spent quite a bit of time out in the bush (Abomosu area). What a neat experience to bring your whole family!
Hi, Mel. I am now just reading your Christmas post which lead me to this post. Both, I must say, brought me to tears. Tears of joy knowing we both share a Savior in Christ Jesus through faith in Him, tears of conviction of being so myopic in my own daily life as I struggle working full time, being a mother and supporting my husband through seminary as he studies to be a hospital chaplain, and (back again) to tears of joy reading these inspirational stories of these women and witnessing how the Lord is using your influence to help bless others. Besides these women, you TRULY are amazing. Over the years I have enjoyed reading your blog (the only I follow), you are my comic relief, my source of all-wonderful-food, and in my hall of fame of fabulous- awesome mothers. I needed to read something like this today to get me out of my rug, help remind me to count my blessings and in turn bless others. When I am able I will be donating to mentors. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all you do and sharing this opportunity to make make a difference.
Ah, Sofaia – your comment was so heartfelt and sweet. Thank you for bringing tears to MY eyes. Your words were much needed today.
You are incredible dear Melanie! What an inspiring report on your African adventure. It’s probably not as great as being in your living room with you, Brian and those marvelous kids, but I loved reading about it. Thank you for being such a marvelous woman, always reaching out to help and serve others including us. We love you!
This is awesome! I myself own my own business and it has blessed my family. I just donated and will be putting a link to them on my website so others know about them. Thank you for posting about this and inspiring others.
Thank you so much, Chrystal!
I would love a post about some of the life changes you want to implement after such an amazing experience!
Do you have an update on how much was raised? The last update I saw was from 8/25 at about $23K.
This microloan concept is amazing, and I know more than one group is able to change families and lives for better with such a simple concept. Thank you for inspiring people to help and bringing light to the need.
Hi Karen! Yes, the latest total I heard from Mentors was $32,000! I’ve been trying to post on Facebook and Instagram when I get new information on donations received.
Hi Mel, I am late to the party but was just able to donate. I am so inspired by your service and loved hearing about your trip. Thanks for all you do.
Thanks, Megan!
Mel thank you so very much for this inspiring post and for putting to work your power for good. You have blessed my life and the lives of so many – thank you!!
Thank you, Kellie!
The experience that you shared, and the opportunities you are facilitating for these women is truly inspiring. The vibrance of the clothing they wear, the joy on the faces of all who you featured in the photos made me feel like I could reach out and touch them. Thanks for you honesty and goodness. This is a bit off topic and I don’t want to distract from the warm and tender feeling of the story but since I love photography, I wanted to ask what kind of camera and lens that you used for the photos that you captured. 🙂
Hi Ellen – thanks for your comment! All these pictures were taken with my Nikon D7100 and the 24-70mm lens. Hope that helps!
Mel you are AMAZING!! I love you inspiring people to bless others! I had tears running down my cheeks reading this today! People are so good to give!! We have been so blessed. We just need to stop cleaning toilets and grocery shopping and vacuuming and running errands and take a moment to share what we have a be GRATEFUL. Thank you!! You have inspired me to be better! I hope we get to meet one day. ❤️
I would love that, Ashlee! And I agree, sometimes we just need to STOP and feel blessed. Thank you!
No words! None! But if my heart could talk it would say so much. I triple double quadruple loved this. Thanks so very much for sharing and giving us the opportunity to help out! Amazing!!
I love ya, Brittney!
Oh my darling friend! You are so awesome!! I love this post! You inspire me! One of my sons best friends (my honorary 6th son) is currently serving a mission in Ghana. We love to get his weekly emails and are so touched by the pictures and stories he has to share of the wonderful people there. Thank you for the links to this wonderful organization! I am excited to help and be a part of something so good! xoxoxox
Thank you so much, Melanie! Miss you. 🙂
Oh Mel…this makes me cry! Amanda mentioned your trip to me a couple of weeks ago and I loved reading about it. This is one of those times that I wish I had unlimited money to donate. What a worthy cause. I’m soso happy that they connected with you because of the reach that you have. You are making such a difference. xoxo
Thank you, sweet Wendy!
A friend of mine just shared your blog with me recently, and this is the first post I’ve ever read of yours, and I am just completely inspired and moved by this experience you just shared. What a wonderful organization to support, thank you for sharing your story, thank you for the opportunity to be a part of it! Thank God for blessing you with the gifts you have to do it! 🙂
Thank you so much for taking the time to comment, Lori. I appreciate your kindness!
This is so amazing Mel! I went to Ghana on a medical mission about 8 years ago and your pictures brought it all back to me. What a wondeful experience! Thanks for giving us all the opportunity to help this cause.
Thanks, Marci. 🙂
Mel! Oh wow. I have a lump in my throat. This was such a heartfelt, personal post sharing with all of us how passionate you feel about a wonderful cause. THANK YOU for sharing. I’m honestly thrilled to know about Mentors and the good they are doing, the hope they are bringing to others. It feels so good to get out of our selfish lives and get involved in supporting a good cause – it’s refreshing and exciting and meaningful. I absolutely loved this post. Thank you for caring enough to notify all of us that WE CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE, and inviting us to join you in this effort! I’m so excited to be a part of this!
Thanks for sharing these stories. I love seeing that your goal has been exceeded by far! This definitely says something about you and the trust we all have in you.
Thank you, Page – it has been really humbling to see how generous everyone has been.
I think I was your third blog reader! You have been my go to place for meal inspiration for at least 8 years. I love your recipes, your writing style, your beautiful pictures and your honesty. I feel thankful to have made a small contribution to such a great cause. Thank you for sharing this opportunity!
You’ve been around a long time, Shannon! I think you deserve some kind of award. 🙂
I’ve been to Ghana twice. Once with my parents as missionaries and once with my husband. It’s an amazing place with humble people. It makes you grateful for what you have and also teaches that you can have real joy with very little. So glad you had the opportunity to go.
So true!
Thank you for sharing your experience and passing on information about this noble charity. I can’t tell you how much you have touched my life with your recipes and your stories- I talk about you like a close family friend and almost all of my meals come from your recipes now. I am shocked if I find someone who doesn’t know about Mel. I was so touched by the stories of these women and would be honored to help them, but also feel honored to be a part of Mel’s group and to do something to help you after you have done so much for so many of us. Thank you Mel! (another inspiring book to read about the economic situation in Africa is ‘I Will Always Write Back: How One Letter Changed Two Lives’. So touching the difference one person and small donations can make)
Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment, Emy. I’m excited to read that book, thanks for the recommendation!
thank you, Mel, for posting this! I was lucky enough to hear Muhammad Yumus speak years ago and I thought the concept of microloans was utterly brilliant. I’m happy to donate:)
(Muhammad Yunus and Grameen Bank were awarded the Nobel Peace Prize for 2006 for their work to “create economic and social development from below”.)
That would be an amazing experience!
Such a cool story. I have a daughter who served her mission in Zimbabwe Africa. 97% unemployment rate. People starving and barely making it in life, but they were the happiest people she has ever known. She too has cool stories of these fine people in Africa who just want an opportunity to work. Any chance of this organization heading Zimbabwe way?
That’s a great question, Jill. I haven’t heard if they have plans to expand to Zimbabwe but maybe someone from Mentors could check in and let us know? I’ll find out!
I am in! Just bought my e-book and will be sharing on my FB pages! What a great cause. Thank you for letting me be a part of it!
Thanks for this post! We donate through another micro loan company for third world countries called Kiva. It’s so neat to see your first hand experience of how ithese organizations and donations change lives, so thanks for sharing! (Just bought your cookbook. :))
I love that there are other organizations doing this same thing, Lindsay!
Thank you so much for bringing awareness to us, you are Awesome! All your readers are awesome too, there’s so much good in people, we have come together for a great cause. Things like this lift up my hear and bring joy! Thanks, Mel!
Me, too, Jocy. Me, too!
And I just set up to give monthly to Mentors!
Oh my goodness, Kay – that’s amazing! Thank you for your generosity!
Mel you are awesome!!! Thanks for letting us be a part of something good:) You made me smile this morning!!! xoxo
So happy to hear that, Lisa!
Beautiful.
Thank you.
Thank you!