Friday Thoughts: Favorite Things + Follow Up
Hey, hey! It’s April already. WOW.
I won’t go into why that’s hard to wrap my brain around (like, school’s out for the summer in less than seven weeks, wut), but…here we are. Time marches on and all that.
I wanted to check in today to share a few favorite things with you and blab about some random life notes. I also have a microblading update, but this post got long in a hurry, so I’ll save that for next time!
Here we go!
Some Favorite Things
I shared a few random, favorite things on Instagram the other week, and didn’t want those of you not on Instagram (good for you) to miss out! So, here they are plus a few more! (None of these are sponsored, just stuff I’m l.o.v.i.n.g.)
- Yasso bars. My goodness. Amazing. My friend, Deb, dropped these frozen yogurt bars off to me last week and I ate two, immediately became obsessed, and the next day drove around to find them (thank you, Albertsons – several of you alerted me they are at Target and Walmart, too). I bought every flavor I could find. All delicious; the sea salt caramel chocolate crunch are my fave.
- S’mores maker. I got this fun little s’mores maker for the kids for Valentine’s day, and it’s been a hit. The premise is super simple, and we love it. You could argue that you don’t really need another small appliance to make a s’mores, but we’d have to agree to disagree on this one. 😉
- My new favorite jeans. Listen, I’m no fashion blogger, but I’m in love with these jeans and thought you should know. This is saying a lot, since I generally avoid wearing hard pants at all costs. #joggersforlife These jeans are flattering and comfy (and I don’t look like I’m a 40+ mom trying to fit into a 19-year old’s fashion closet). I bought them from one of my favorite online clothing boutiques, Piper and Scoot – the jeans are a top seller and I think there are only a few sizes left. But good news, I did a quick google search and found the exact same ones here. They run a bit big. I’d size down one waist size (I’m normally a 27-28-ish and I wear a size 26). And yes, that is a carpenter loop, and yes, it does beg the question of why I didn’t hang on to the pair I had in high school. K, bye.
- Queen Bee Chocolates. This family-owned company is in Wyoming, a few hours from where my parents live in Montana. My dad makes the drive to this small town just for these amazing chocolates. And after every trip, he usually sends me a small box stuffed with my favorites (thanks, dad!). I love the story behind this small copmany: honey farmers turned simultaneous candy makers. All the chocolate/candy is made with honey, and it is incredibly delicious. My favorites: the dark chocolate haystacks, the Bee Energy Bars, and the honey caramels.
- Crazy amazing granola. My sister gave me a few flavors of this Safe + Fair granola for my birthday, and I became an instant fan. So much so that I ended up buying one (ahem, ok, two) of every flavor from their website. The birthday cake granola is unparalleled. But I just dipped into the honeycrisp apple and ohmygoodness.
- Sassy bites. Random grocery store find, and now I can’t eat lunch without them. I’m a pickle fanatic, and these sweet + spicy pickles might be in the land of best pickles I’ve ever had (yes, I’ve had Famous Daves, and I think they’re even better, please don’t hate me). Word has it that the pickled carrots from this company are UNREAL.
- White balsamic vinegar. The same friend who blessed my life with the fro-yo bars also gave me some of this white balsamic vinegar from Baker + Olive, and I have never had anything like it in my life. I went through a bottle of the mango white balsamic in no time (best vinegar ever), so I decided to order more flavors of vinegar than one human should ever need. JUSTIFICATION: I’m planning to keep them in my pantry for gifts. Buuuuut I’m worried I’m going to end up dipping into every flavor just so I can sample. I have personally tried the mango, cranberry pear, and jalapeno – all of them outrageously delicious. I also have bought and used the olive oil from this same company and a few of the spice blends.
As for what I do with the vinegar: I use it in recipes that call for vinegar (salad dressings, marinades), but it’s also so flavorful and tasty on it’s own that I regularly whisk equal parts vinegar and olive oil and toss it with a simple salad. Divine.
How Did This Happen?
Unbelievably, I started this blog just a few weeks after this picture was taken, almost 15 years ago.
Even more unbelievable is that some of you have been around for almost that entire time. 💗
Earlier this week that cute little boy in the blue PJ’s up there turned 18.
Me: WHO AM I AND HOW DID I GET HERE?
Also me: DON’T GET ATTACHED, THEY GROW UP AND LEAVE YOU.
Finally me: 😭💗😭💗😭💗😭💗😭💗😭💗😭💗😭💗😭💗
Millions of kids throughout history have grown up, graduated high school, and launched into the big, wide world. I’m certainly no pioneer. And yet, I feel like the first mom who has ever experienced the lump-in-my-throat, bittersweet emotions watching her oldest son go through this phase of life. My heart is full of love…and also ripping to shreds.
I just honestly don’t feel old enough for this. Can we pause life for about 10 years (but only if it can be done exactly when all the teenagers in my house are in a good mood)? Pretty please?
Sourdough (Don’t Roll Your Eyes)
I haven’t personally gotten into making rustic, gorgeous loaves of rustic sourdough bread. You know the ones: the bread with incredible sourdough flavor and also crust so sharp it bleeds the top of your mouth dry. Yeah, those ones.
But I have become mildly obsessed with sourdough discard recipes.
Now is just a gentle reminder and nudge to get your hands on a sourdough starter (or make your own so it has time to grow and get ready to use), because I’m posting an easy sourdough discard recipe next week that is going to knock your socks off.
And I’m also working on the softest, fluffiest sourdough sandwich bread and a perfected sourdough waffle recipe.
If you are cringing at the thought of the sourdough recipes to come, don’t worry. I promise my blog isn’t turning into Sourdough Central…there are just a few recipes I’m super excited to share before I lose interest. 🙂
My Brother’s Wedding
My favorite younger brother, Nate, got married last month, and I was very, very honored (and also very, very nervous) to take the photos and make the cake for his wedding.
Because I had to drive six hours to the wedding, I baked the cake layers ahead of time and then made the frosting and assembled and decorated the cake at the AirBnb in Portland, Oregon.
After perusing the Pinterest boards Nate and Tim sent me for inspiration, I went with a rustic/woodsy vibe. I used this chocolate cake recipe for two 9-inch layers topped with two 7-inch layers.
In between the layers I spread dark chocolate ganache sprinkled with dark chocolate crispy chocolate pearls aff. link (sidenote: those crispy pearls are the best thing to happen to life – I decorate cakes/cupcakes/cookies with them, but mostly, I eat them by the handful; so delightfully yummy)
Tim prefers less-sweet frosting (as do I!), so I made this buttery magical frosting to frost the outside of the cake layers.
(I bought the engraved cake knife and server from Etsy, as well as the cake topper. The acacia cake board is from Amazon aff. link)
The cake ended up tasting quite delicious…but mostly, I was just happy it didn’t collapse while driving an hour through Portland traffic to the venue. Special shoutout to my amazing mom who held the assembled cake on her lap the entire drive.
I love my brother, Nate, more than I can express in a blog post. He’s not just my brother, he is one of my closest friends.
His life story is not mine to tell, but I will say that if you’ve been blessed to know Nate in the 40 years he’s been on this earth, you’ll know how lucky you are. He’s warm and genuine. Authentic and kind. He’s a phenomenal father. He’s wickedly smart. And he is also very, very funny.
I am so incredibly grateful for the man he is, the life he is living, and the fact that he’s now blessed me with an amazing brother-in-law, Tim, who patiently listens to me talk about sourdough starters and pigs. (Bless you, Tim, bless you.)
This is me probably giving Nate the side eye at some joke he made. He and I are always arguing about who is funnier. I mean, Nate is SUPER funny, but is this still even a debate?? You guys, please believe me: I am older, wiser, and definitely funnier. 😉
Tummy Troubles
I have had increasing stomach issues for months. I know it’s a combination of stress/anxiety, family history of IBS, and some inflammatory foods on my particular tummy.
I recently did an elimination diet where most of my meals consisted of things like this:
Which looks yummy for half a second until you eat it every dang day for weeks on end and realize that there is no true joy without chocolate, cheese and carbs.
The upside is that I’ve been able to identify some foods that are causing me stomach issues. Along with that, I’ve also been taking these digestive enzymes + probiotics (aff. link) and have noticed a huge difference for the better when I take them.
Some News Resources I Like
I, like many of you, feel the heaviness of world events right now, particularly the war in Ukraine. If you are like me and want to stay informed without feeling overwhelmed by all the loud voices and huge amount of misinformation, here are the sites/resources I check.
- @sharonsaysso (she posts most of her information on her Instagram stories)
- @mosheh (he posts most of his info in Instagram stories as well, but he also has a very helpful email bulletin you can subscribe to)
- The Donut daily email (I love this quick synopsis of world events + other information + random tidbits)
- @smarthernews and @theamericanmoms and @ridethenews have also been great informational resources for me
- @wiserworldpodcast (here’s the website) is a new-to-me podcast (and a fairly new podcast altogether) that is incredibly helpful with short-ish episodes about countries and historical events (the four episodes on the last 100 years in Russia and Ukraine were so, so informative and interesting)
Additionally, I’ve been following the work of World Central Kitchen in Ukraine right now, and the amount of meals this organization makes to feed the hungry is absolutely mind-blowing. I’ve personally donated to World Central Kitchen and to Save The Children for their efforts in Ukraine right now. These are just two of many, many worthy and reputable organizations needing donations right now. 💗
Y’all. WHY DO I ALWAYS HAVE SO MUCH TO SAY.
Thanks for being here and for sticking with me and my randomness (for those of you that make it to the end every time). I love your guts. Just so much.
Let me know how you’re doing in the comments? Yes, please do.
Hi! You may already know this, but I just figured out that the Baker and Olive vinegars and oils are actually supplied by a company called Veronica Foods Co in Oakland, CA. Their website lists where you can buy their products locally. There is actually a company in Boise that sells the same vinegars and oils and you can sample them! https://olivinboise.com
Im a little late to the party but had to chime in… must look up those jeans! So cute. We just enrolled our oldest in high school and am feeling the beginnings of the letting go pain, can’t believe it’s going by so fast. Another news source you might like is the Epoch Times, comes online or in an actual newspaper. Love the cake you made for your brother. Thank you for all the work you do on your blog, I’ve been following for ten years and I’ve learned so much about cooking from you.
I basically just lurk around your blog pretty regularly, and I’m not here to point fingers… but if I may, it is entirely your fault that I have a sourdough start brewing in the back of my fridge. Those pumpkin muffins were/are worth it… but I need more. You feel free to post allllllllll the sour dough things! I love what I’ve learned from you!
Congrats to Nate and Tim… they are lovely, and the setting in the few pictures you posted is EVERYTHING! I love the PNW! Such a beautiful area!
The cake looks amazing and PLEASE give me ALL the sourdough recipes!! LOVE it so much and don’t understand how to do it and never feel like I get anything that actually tastes really sourdough-y!
I just got the pants you recommend and tried them on (they fit and feel lovely). My 7 year old saw them, pointed to the hole in the right knee and said “are those the new pants you just got? Are they from the DI?” Fashion is hard!
Hi! First time commenting. Congrats on your eldest’s mission call! You can pat yourself on the back knowing you have raised a righteous man! I only have one son and it was soooooo hard for me to say good-bye. Hoooo-boy! Lots and lots of tears! But!! The days may go by slowly but the years go by quickly. And the man that comes back? Changed. Changed in so many good ways! My guy went to the Philippines and came back with an accent (!), a love for the humble people of the islands, and, of course, a love of righteous service. I love your recipes – they’re easy! and I adore your faux farm! Keep up the great work and know that I’m sending you a hug now for that upcoming day in August.
I have made lots of your recipes over the years but was hesitant to subscribe until I read this post. Thank you for sharing your love for your brother and his husband. As I celebrate my anniversary today with my husband, I truly connect with the power of love and commitment. And Yasso bars? Where have these been my whole life?
My oldest is only 2 and I still get worked up thinking she will actually leave our house one day! Which is why I’m taking advantage of this sick day to get in lots of snuggles.
Would you mind telling us how you went about the elimination diet? IBS sufferer here too!
I finally took time to sit down and read this, and now I have so many things to look up, I’m eyeing those jeans especially! The cake turned out so amazing, love it. So happy for your brother and his new husband. ❤️
Big hugs, Mel. You’re an amazing blogger, friend, mom, sister, daughter, and wife. You’re basically just amazing. 🙂
Mel, thank you for a great post! I almost got teary-eyed reading about your son. Our families are very similar, I also have 4 boys and a girl and my oldest turned 18, 2 months ago and will graduate from high school this spring and is planning on an LDS mission in the fall. I have to constantly keep myself in check to not start crying everytime he says things like, “my last Christmas at home, my last general conference st home!” I really had no idea it would be like this! But i’m sure, like you said, if others have done it and survived, i’m sure we will, too! Hang in there, my friend! Pray for me and I’ll pray for you ❤
This post is beautiful! Time marches on, and I feel as young as I ever did but my babes are evidence of aging
My friends and I talk about your recipes as if we were your dear friends, which we are not but we love talking about dear Mel and the latest recipe of yours we have enjoyed.
I love me a wedding, the beauty of family and supporting each other through life. Ordering the chocolate crisps you put in the cake are now on my priority.
Your blog delights me, your recipes feed my family, and am grateful you are here.
Beautiful cake you made there! Also, I live in Wyoming and fortunately I get to live by Queen Bee chocolates and please do yourself a favor and buy the chocolate covered mint honey drops. AMAZING. Also, my little brother is gay as well and just got married a couple years ago. I’m happy he’s happy for now but I worry about him in the future. And…your kids are just beautiful
My little mountain grocery store had Safe and Fair granola- even the birthday cake flavor. I snatched some up after your post and I am so glad I did- delicious! Thanks for all of your thoughts, recipes and sharing a bit of your wonderful family with us.
I used your website for recipes on a weekly basis. I love so many recipes and feel we have similar ideas on home cooked family meals. I’ve felt very grateful for your time and effort into each post. I wanted to comment on a post for the first time because I was touched of the way you talked about your brother and new brother-in-law. The care into the cake and sharing your love warmed my heart. Best of wishes to you and your family and thank you.
I’m not sure I’ve ever posted before but I’ve been following you for well over 10 years. I loved the wedding cake and congratulations to Tim and Nate! I also have a son who is in Grade 12 and was looking forward to graduating and starting university in September and 3 weeks ago we were shocked to find out he has acute myeloid leukaemia (he has rarely had even a cold in 17 years). Now graduation and university are on hold while he is undergoing 6 months of chemo and then will need a bone marrow transplant. We are all beyond devastated to say the least. I used to get very anxious and sad about him leaving home for university but now I would give absolutely anything to see him going off to school happy and healthy. So hug your boy tight. Life can change in a heartbeat. If you have a prayer to spare we could sure use it.
Kim, I will pray for you and your son! My brother had a bone marrow transplant about 6 years ago, it was a very scary time for our family, especially for my brother’s wife and 3 small children. But 6 years later, my brother has been given a clean bill of health and is thriving! I hope and pray for a bright future for your son as well!
My daughter was diagnosed a few months ago with Leukemia as well (ALL). Hoping his treatments go well! It is a hard battle.
Beautiful post my friend!!! Love your long hair and cool shoes and AMAZING cake! How are our kids graduating and leaving home??? Ugh!
My favorite post yet!
I’ve never met your brother Nate, but I feel like I have. We moved into his ward in Connecticut shortly after he moved out in 2011 and everyone always had such great things to say about him. We have MANY mutual FB friends of people I dearly love. Congratulations to him. I also can totally relate to your stage of life. When my oldest left on his mission 4 years ago, it truly felt like the end of an era. Now he’s returned and thriving at BYU and we’re awaiting the return of our second oldest in six short months. There are days you just want to turn back time, but it’s so fun to embrace the next stage too. Love & Hugs.
Love your Friday thoughts posts. You are amazing! That wedding cake looks so beautiful! Please share more sourdough recipes, I have been obsessed with making sourdough bread lately.
Speaking on sourdough I have loved this resource and think this is the best sourdough sandwich bread EVER!
https://melissaknorris.com/best-beginner-sourdough-sandwich-bread-no-yeast/
I enjoy the recipes you share and always look forward to new ones. Will be looking forward to your recipes for using the sourdough discard.
Thanks for your blog!
Perfect post is perfect, love every word of it. Congrats on your blog anniversary, and especially big congrats to Nate and Tim!
Mel, I still remember in early 2009 when we invited new friends over for dinner and they brought your divine breadsticks. Life has changed so much since then—five moved across two different states, career changes, another baby, ups and downs, triumph and heartache. With so much change very little stays the same, but even through all the chaos and ups and downs—those divine breadsticks still make an appearance for every birthday and holiday . Your recipes have followed us through life’s twists and turns. I’m just a bit behind you, my daughter is almost done with Junior year. Crazy times indeed.
Thanks for everything! The food, the gift ideas, and probably most importantly for your prodding us all to get checked for skin cancer! You’ve made quite an impact on us ❤️.
Hold up there hot mama- it was just a little while ago you brought that darling little firstborn over to visit just after I had been married! What the what? 18 years?! I’m kinda in disbelief myself that my oldest is coming up on her Junior year. You’re family is just beautiful. And those jeans? You looks amazing. Ya right you eat crispy chocolate pearl thinger schnockers by the handful! Love your guts!!
Congratulations to Nate & Tim! Thank you for sharing. Beautiful cake. It looks amazing.
No such thing as too many sourdough recipes! I’m obsessed!
Love your Friday Thoughts as well as all your posts. Meals in our house are so much better thanks to you!