Mel’s Holiday Gift Guide: His + Hers + Everything Else
As much as I love games and kid stuff, I have to say, I think I’ve saved the best gift guide for last this year! I tried to include gift ideas and stocking stuffer ideas that would be great for a spouse or significant other, friend, parent, older child. Basically, there’s no wrong answer in deciding who these gifts could go to!
None of the items below are sponsored. We’ve bought or been gifted all of these things. And even though this gift guide might be the longest one yet, believe it or not, I actually narrowed it down quite a bit. Which means, only the best of the best made the cut!
Here’s a quick link to all the gift guides I’ve posted over the years.
And here are past His + Hers gift guides:
His + Hers Gift Guide 2014
His + Hers Gift Guide 2015
His + Hers Gift Guide 2016
His + Hers Gift Guide 2017
His + Hers Gift Guide 2018
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1. Pen Tool {aff. link}: this clever pen tool is an all-in-one screwdriver set, level, ruler, etc. It’s tiny, super handy, and makes the perfect stocking stuffer (I’ve given it to dads, grandpas, and husbands). 🙂
2. Gourmet Hot Chocolate {aff. link}: I am a hot chocolate snob. I admit it; I own it. And this hot chocolate {aff. link} is so, so, so good. It should definitely be reserved for dark chocolate lovers and fellow hot chocolate snobs – it is amazing and so decadent.
3. Blenders Sunglasses: I love these sunglasses so much. They are lightweight and super cute. I have this pair. Technically I’m probably too old to be wearing sunglasses with that adorable mirror finish, but I somehow don’t care all that much.
4. Oontz Bluetooth Speaker {aff. link}: this portable, loud (or quiet), bluetooth speaker {aff. link} is amazing. I’ve taken it everywhere from family reunions to playing at the park. It comes in other bright, fun colors, too! It has a huge range and is semi-waterproof (like, it’s ok in a little bit of rain or if it gets splashed by, say, a rogue water balloon).
5. Tabletop Shuffleboard and Carrom {aff. links}: I grew up playing Carrom…it’s a really fun table top pool-type game except you flick the pieces with your fingers or use miniature cue sticks. I finally bought our family a Carrom set {aff. link} (shhh, they are getting it for Christmas!) and I know they’ll be so excited since they always pull this game out at my parents’ house. Speaking of tabletop games, this tabletop shuffleboard (and curling) game {aff. link} is also incredibly fun (surprised how much teenagers rally around and play with this!)
6. Beautycounter: I am such a huge Beauty Counter fan; their products are saving my skin cancer treated skin (I found them in my search for products that were much safer – they eliminate thousands of commonly used chemicals and ingredients in skincare). I buy enough of their products that I finally just signed up to “sell” it so I could get 25% off the products. There are lots of consultants around, so chances are you have a friend or family member who is one – if not, you can order here. Also, BONUS: everything is 15% off right now for pre-Black Friday shopping. Anyway, I love their body butter and hand cream trios for gift giving (I separate the lotions out of the box once they arrive and gift each one separately), I use the Countertime system every day, and on and on.
7. Note cards: maybe I’m old-fashioned but I always keep note cards on hand, and I use these adorable tree ones {aff. link} and these other cute pineapple-vibe cards {aff. link} for everything from thank you notes to I’m thinking of you notes. Another great stocking stuffer idea.
8. Compact Survival Kit{aff. link}: I gifted this to my dad last year (he’s a super outdoorsy guy) and I am getting one to keep in my car. Seriously, this compact little case {aff. link} is packed with an incredible amount of useful things: emergency blanket, knife, whistle, tactical pen, flashlight, etc. I don’t know, I kind of think everyone needs to cart one of these around, don’t you think? The world is a scary place. 🙂
9. Hiking Chair {aff. link}: speaking of the outdoors, if you are an avid outdoor person, this compact and lightweight camping/folding chair is not only super cute (really, it is), but very functional. It’s not like sitting in a la-z-boy by any means, but it definitely does the job and is better than sitting on a sketchy tree stump.
10. Hanayama Brain Teasers {aff. link}: Brian and the kids are really (really really) into brain teasers and puzzle boxes and mind games. These Hanayama brain teasers are some of the best. We have some level 5 and level 6 ones and they are pretty darn challenging (the lower level ones are obviously a bit easier). A few new ones are making it into stockings this year.
11. Camping pillow{aff. link}: another outdoor/camping win, this inflatable camping pillow is cute and pretty darn awesome. Not that I’d know – camping isn’t necessarily a part of my every day life, but my boys and dad camp a ton, and this info is coming straight from them: a camping pillow is essential. Just get rid of the guilt of not totally roughing it like a true mountain “person” – life’s too short to sleep head first on a rock.
12. Best Exercise Mat{aff. link}: I have had this exercise mat for years and years, and it is still going strong. Not only that, it is so thick and is actually crazy comfortable. Sometimes after doing abs, I have to remind myself that it isn’t actually naptime. Highly recommend this mat.
13. Mrs. Meyers Hand Soap: words can’t describe how much I love Mrs. Meyer’s hand soap. It’s in all my bathrooms, by my kitchen sink. The different flavors have never, ever let me down (basil and radish are my all-time faves). It also makes a really great inexpensive holiday gift (I’m taking it to a Favorite Things party in a couple weeks). You can get it at Target-type stores, amazon (in a 6-pack) {aff. link}. I get my Mrs. Meyer’s soap in my monthly Grove Collaborative order (that’s where I get most of my household cleaners because I love the natural products – here’s a quick referral code if you want it).
14. Cryptex {aff. link}: I gave my 14-year old this Cryptex locked puzzle container for his birthday (with an iTunes gift card inside). It was a total hit. I chose a 5-letter word and locked the Cryptex and then I wrote rhyming clues for Walker to guess to try to unlock. The awesome thing about this is that the code can be reset and reused over and over! He now has it on his dresser with all his spending cash inside (no one knows the 5-letter word to unlock it – I think he changes it weekly, haha).
15. Microwave Popcorn Popper {aff. link}: after many years, my last microwave popcorn popper went kaput. Enter this new fun popper! It works exactly how it should, and it means my kids make popcorn for after school snack 4/5 days of the week.
16. Insulated Water Bottle {aff. link}: I’ve had a real deal Hydroflask and now I own this super inexpensive (by comparison) Hydro cell water bottle, and I honestly can’t tell a difference. It’s amazing. I have the color pictured above – an ombre teal/blue and I love it. I keep it filled on my kitchen counter and use it at least 38 times a day. My kids each have saved up their money to buy one, too, and they use them for sports practices and road trips.
17. Nano Hand Sanitizer {aff. link}: hand sanitizer, Mel, really?? Yes, really. This spray sanitizer is the best. The odor is so much lower than almost any other hand sanitizer I’ve used, the spray means there’s no pump action leaking all over your bag, and apparently it’s supposed to last 24 hours. Not sure how that can be or if it’s true – all I know is I keep one of these in the car, in my purse, in my church bag, and around my neck. (Ok, just kidding on that last part, but I have considered it.)
18. Victorinox Knives {aff. link}: favorite, favorite, favorite knives ever. I use my little green knife for everything, and even with all my expensive knives in the drawer, I always look for this one. It’s a great stocking stuffer (be careful reaching in that stocking!) and a fun little gift for a friend. Seriously, I love this knife so much.
19. Comfy Folding Dish Chair {aff. link}: Brian likes to come in to our little home office at night and keep me company (after all these years, my main blogging hours are still after the kids go to bed). The poor guy has spent years sitting or laying on the rather uncomfortable floor reading or doing his own thing on his computer/iPad while I lounge in the one and only computer chair – it’s a small office and there isn’t a ton of room for a big chair. For Father’s Day this last year, I got him this folding dish chair, and it has literally become the most coveted chair in our house. It is crazy comfortable AND it folds, so it can store easily or be transported from room to room. If Walker could fit it in his Crytpex puzzle box and lock it away for his own use forever, he would.
20. Favorite Pan {aff. link}: this white ceramic *nearly* 9X13-inch dish is my favorite. So much so that I have two of them. I use it for so many things – not just casseroles and baked dishes but also for a serving dish for fruit or veggies or even salad. It gets a lot of flak in the reviews for not being a true 9X13-inch dish…and it’s not. It just slightly smaller. But for most casseroles or baked pasta dishes or what not, it works great.
21. Ping Pong Table {aff. link}: we’ve had this Joola ping pong table for years and it is holding up amazingly well despite the fact that teenagers regularly run around it playing Around the World (always turns into sting ping, sigh). We don’t have space to leave up a ping pong table 100% of the time, so the fact that it folds and rolls is a high mark. It’s heavy duty and very well made.
22. Favorite Puzzles: we are puzzle fanatics. And I’ve learned not all puzzles are created equal. Far and above, my favorite puzzles are White Mountain, Ravensburger (and I got this Springbok one {aff. link} to do over the holidays). We have some larger Ravensbuger puzzles like this one {aff. link} and also a few of their awesome XXL piece puzzles {aff. link} for younger humans.
23. Wallet Tool {aff. link}: a fun stocking stuffer, this clever little gift has a credit card tool (these things are awesome if you haven’t heard of them) plus a fire starter, carabiner and emergency whistle (which is super loud, firsthand knowledge here!).
24. Little Snowie{aff. link}: I handed down my old shaved ice maker to my dad to use with the scouts in his area, and this last summer, I bought this Little Snowie machine {aff. link} after my friend raved about it and said they used theirs every day. It’s small and lightweight and honestly makes pretty great shaved ice. I’m sure true shave ice fans may find a little fault with the texture, but judging by the number of snow cones we gobbled up this year, it worked great for us. The only downside is that it is crazy loud. But I’m sure we’ll use this for many, many summers to come. {We use the Torani and DaVinci syrups – like, for Italian sodas – for the flavorings.}
25. Adjustable Dumbbells{aff. link}: we’ve had these Bowflex adjustable weights for a long time; they’re great and super functional, but I didn’t realize how big and bulky they were until trying these slimmer PowerBlock adjustable dumbbells. Holy cow, they are awesome. Brian still prefers the bigger Bowflex ones, but it’s the less bulky PowerBlock ones all the way for me (over here, lifting my 10 pounders and feeling really proud of it).
26. Meat Chopper{aff. link}: I literally did not believe all the hype about getting another tool to crumble ground meat as it cooks. Seriously? Don’t you people use every day wooden spoons? I stand seriously corrected. I finally bought one without the scoop (when I realized for $5 or less I could really decide if the fuss was worth it), and I honestly don’t know how we lived so long without one of these meat choppers. Yes, it really does make a difference. (This would be a fantastic stocking stuffer for the ground meat cooker in your life – even if that is yourself.)
27. Thin Wallet{aff. link}: I am in love with this super slender leather wallet. I wanted something less bulky in my purse, and this wallet has been amazing. Also, fun colors. I have it in light blue.
Phew. If you made it this far, you deserve cookies!!! (Or a meat chopper, you’re choice.) 🙂
Thank you now have quite a few good ideas for Christmas gifts
Is it too early to be anxiously awaiting for your 2020 gift guide? Asking for a friend. 😉
Haha, not at all! I’m hoping to get them up earlier than usual this year!
Hey Mel!! I was just going to look into that tactical survival kit again (My 13yo saw it while I was pursuing this and your other gift guides with him, and he fell in looooove!) and the link is broken now! Just thought I’d let you know. 🙂 It was working soon after you posted it, so….that’s odd. I’m going to search through all the kits on Amazon hoping to find it, but if I could a link to yours, with the aff. link, that’d be better! Thanks!
Oh shoot! I wonder if it sold out. I’ll look into it!
Thank you!!! I loooove your gift guides!
I have a question: does your family own/watch tv or movies? I’m just curious because I’ve never seen you recommend tv shows or movies and you guys play so many games! Which is so awesome!
Also, one more question. My 5 kids are all really young (oldest is about to turn 7, youngest was born a week ago). I love playing games with my oldest…WITH JUST HER. It seems like whenever the younger ones are involved it’s just chaos and people get upset and mess up the games. So I was wondering if you have any suggestions in how to play games when I have so many little ones? Is it even possible? Even games like Hoot Owl Hoot, meant for young ones, end up being stressful with the little ones 🙁
Hi Ashley, yes we have a TV and we love to watch movies together (we don’t turn it on much during the week mostly because life is too busy, but my kids do love to watch America’s Got Talent and The Voice). I usually don’t recommend those types of things because what we watch isn’t all that unique – I figure if we are watching something on netflix, the rest of the world probably knows about it. 🙂
As for the games, yes I agree that it’s mostly stressful playing games with kids younger than age 5…and when my kids were that young we did a lot of one-to-one game playing like you suggested and didn’t do much whole family game playing (other than silly active games like charades or hide and seek).
I have the Victorinox knife in hot pink and it is THE BEST. I reach for it all the time… Good thing I got the bright handle, because it makes it easier to see and harder to accidentally slice my finger off!
I think I see a few things that Santa could drop off in my stocking on this list, too.
Thanks for the awesome suggestions hi am always looking for nice inexpensive sunglasses, always misplacing them or looking around the house for them. But I have very light sensitive eyes and am always wearing sunglasses, sun or clouds. How dark are the Blenders sunglasses? Are they more for protecting your eyes or do they actually help with the brightness? Love they have free returns but wanted first hand info first.
Hey Becky – I have pretty sensitive eyes and I think they do a great job with brightness. Probably not the darkest on the market, for sure, but I’ve been really pleased with them in that regard.
Love it! Thanks so much!! Do you recommend buying the meat chopper with or without the scoop?
I have the one without the scoop and love it!
Oh Mel! Radish is my fav as well. There was brand I got at Fred Meyer I believe was called Chesapeake Bay…they had a Tomato Blossom smell in candles and reed diffuser. But I think they discontinued. It was divine. Love the herbaceous smells!!
Ooh, tomato blossom – interesting!
Love your gift suggestions! My 18 year old son LOVES puzzles! He has tried many brands and he agrees not all puzzles are equal. He likes Ravensburger, but his favorite by far is EDUCA. They haven’t disappointed once in the 20+ puzzles we’ve bought from them. He typically likes 1500-2000 piece, but has enjoyed some of their more 1000 piece.
That’s amazing! Thanks for the recommendation!
I LOVE my power block dumbbells. I still go to the gym, but sometimes you just don’t want to drag yourself there and I turn in a free Fitness Blender workout video on YouTube and get out the dumbbells. I am totally going you check out your microwave popcorn popper! We had an air popper that you plug in- but those only seem to last a year. Stovetop popcorn is great, but I hate the cleanup. Thanks for making my life easier, Mel!
Thanks, Julie!
Thanks Mel! I always love your gift guides and usually end up gifting myself a thing or three! But k… Favorite things party. Tell me about it. I’m probably late to this type of party, but what? Everyone brings their favorite thing to share?
Yeah, I’ve only been to one before (and this one coming up) but usually people bring a couple of their favorite things wrapped or in bags to share with other people there and it’s like a mini gift exchange of sorts. I love learning about other people’s favorite things!
Mel,
You are just awesome! ❤️ I don’t know how you find the time or energy to do all that you do! Truly. Thank you so much for this list! Great ideas and I’m gonna pull this up on my laptop later so I can go through it more seriously!
This was so sweet…thank you, Nancy!
Thanks for the great ideas! The meat chopper was a lifesaver for us a couple nights ago…our deep freezer went out and we had to save 20 lbs of ground beef …fast! : )
Oh wow, what a nightmare!! glad you were able to save the meat!
Thank you for all the great ideas. I’ve purchased kids games and puzzles based on your lists from before and got even more ideas this year from your lists. Thank you for your time and efforts.
Thanks, Sue!
Thanks so much for this list! I needed an idea for my work’s grab bag. The popcorn popper is perfect.
Awesome! Glad it fit the bill!
I have the Oontz speaker too, and I love it!
I actually love that it’s a triangle shape, because it doesn’t tip over very easily when I stand it on end. And it has never had trouble connecting to my iphone (like my husband’s bluetooth speaker does).
I agree on both those counts! It’s quite the little speaker.
We actually have two of them and they can be synced together to make a left and right speaker. They sound more like surround sound then. My husband has an older pickup so he puts them on the dash on each side so he can listen to podcasts while driving to work.
Oh, that’s awesome to know!
Amen to the Victorinox knives. Love them!
Yessss!
This was an awesome list! Way better than the silly ones you google. Your gifts are not just junk, they’re useful and creative and clever for kids’ brains!
And I love your sense of humor. 🙂
Thanks so much, Meg! I know I’m a little wordy in the descriptions but I just have so dang much to say all the time! 🙂
I love to do puzzles and never do because I have nowhere to keep them while we work. Does anyone else have this problem and what do you do? Thanks much.
I hear you. We don’t have a the super greatest puzzle spot in our house but our solution is to use one of those white life time tables and set a larger board on top of it for the puzzle – then if we need to move it (for company or eating or whatever) we can lift the board off of the table and transport the puzzle somewhere else.
I use a large piece of cardboard (from a TV box) and I slide the board under the coach when I’m not using it. Home Depot has 2×4 folding tables that are great!
https://www.homedepot.com/p/Lifetime-48-in-Almond-Plastic-Adjustable-Height-Fold-in-Half-Folding-Table-80726/305551875
https://www.bitsandpieces.com/product/portable-felt-jigsaw-puzzle-roll
A friend once gave us one of these and that really helps that problem of not having a place to store a puzzle when you’re in the process of putting it together! Really handy! You can get it from different places too!
I’ve been so excited for your gift guides! Thanks so much for taking the time to put them together. Your suggestions have made great gifts over the years ! Super excited to gift several of these new items this year!!
Thank you so much, Jaci!
I rolled my eyes when my mom brought out her meat chopper, but then I used it. Definitely worth it.
Haha, I’m telling you, I was the SAME way and now feel I should apologize to all the people I secretly rolled my eyes at for using one.
Thank you for the list! I just purchased the Bluetooth speaker as my Secret Santa gift at the office! Perfect size and amount! You are the best!
Oh, that’s a super fun secret Santa gift!
Thanks so much for the ideas!! There’s some really cool things I hadn’t heard of
Thanks, Krista!
Thanks for another great list Mel!! I joined Grove recently and would love to know some of your favorite products.
Thanks for this list of great gift ideas! We love Ravensburger puzzles. I’m ordering the knives for myself and the chair for a Christmas present.
I hope you love those knives, Teresa! I can’t live without them.
Thank you for making the gift guides! I always love seeing them!
Thanks, Cara!
We have the same ping pong table and there is an off-brand fabulous cover for it
If yours lives outside all year like ours!
Also- my daughter runs a huge ‘all natural’
Shave Iced stand with her friend every summer for a preschool in Rwanda – and
They make about $150o every year selling shave ice for 50 cents plus tables of treats all from your site (Brookies go in the first 20 min)- but wanted to share a cool tip for shave ice syrup if you want to make as natural as possible – just defrost fruit juice concentrate and pour into a squirt bottle – then squeeze over snow cone – works sooo well and the girls have 9 different flavors including pink lemonade which is a huge seller. No need to buy special syrup with color dyes !
Thanks for the tips on the snowcone syrups. We love to make our own shave ice and I’m always looking for natural syrup recipes online, but that’s a great idea to just use fruit juice concentrate!
Rachel, this is amazing! First of all I’m so impressed with your daughter and her service-oriented spirit! I think you’ve shared this before (or maybe I’m dreaming) but I’m so proud of her for what she’s doing. Second of all, that’s so brilliant about the snow cone syrups. You’ve changed my life for good. Can’t wait to try it!
We love doing puzzles and have so many of the white mountain puzzles, but I definitely need to get that looney labels one. Oh and I can’t live without my meat chopper. I bought mine from Pampered Chef years ago and paid way more than that — dang! Thanks for the great gift list Mel!
The looney labels one is so fun. You’ll have to share your favorite White Mountain puzzles!
1. I love the geranium scent of Mrs Meyers soap. It’s my favorite because it doesn’t dry out my hands like most scented soaps. 2. I bought the white dish per your recommendation awhile back and love it. It’s the perfect lasagna dish. My husband was sure it wouldn’t come clean after the last time I used it and it did – and still looks brand new.
Thanks, Jeanelle – happy you love that white dish and I have to agree – it cleans up like a dream!
I’ll take cookies over a meat chopper any day!!
Haha, can’t blame you for that!
Great gift guide! Thank you!!
Thanks, Jenny!