Friday Thoughts
Almost two months since my last Friday Thoughts post? Say it isn’t so! Ha. Actually you probably didn’t notice, but I did! I’ve been storing up all these weird but necessary thoughts to share with you.
Today it’s somewhat light-hearted and random, but these are the thoughts burning a hole in my brain (and in my Evernote app which is where I jot them down when they come to me at 3 a.m.).
1) Mascara Thoughts: not earth-shattering, I know, but I have strong opinions on mascara. I’ve used L’Oreal Voluminous Waterproof (color: black) mascara forever. Forever, forever. Recently I decided to live on the edge and try L’Oreal Voluminous Lash Paradise aff. link (always waterproof, always), and, well, I love it. Very much.
But the most amazing part? Using the lash paradise for the first coat and then my much-loved voluminous for a couple top coats is pure magic. I don’t use any type of lash boosters or serums, and my eyelashes are very average, but I’m telling you, this combo is pretty awesome. Favorite mascara? Spill it!
2) Podcast Thoughts: I’ve talked about several of my favorite podcasts before in my newsletter, but the last couple months I’ve been obsessed with Malcolm Gladwell’s Revisionist History. Not only is his voice kind of mesmerizing, but the content is fascinating. FASCINATING. I listen to it while I exercise in the mornings (and sometimes while I clean my house), and I often find myself just standing there (take that, lunges!) because I’m so caught up in the story. The civil rights episodes in season 2 are eye opening to say the least, and I loved the “McDonald’s Broke My Heart” one, too. My advice? Make sure you have a friend who listens, too, so you can talk about it! Share any of your favorite podcasts below – I’m always looking for good recommendations!
3) Summer Thoughts: After this post on summer schedules, I’m happy to report that halfway in, summer is going pretty well. We had close to two weeks of travel/family reunions thrown in so far, but the daily jobs vs weekly jobs system is running pretty smoothly! The older boys started their flag selling business and are working their teenager buns off selling them door-to-door, at farmer’s markets and online.
My kids, of course, wish they were doing this every day, but no such luck.
We’ve had some ups and downs (and waaaay too many late nights for everyone – thanks a lot World Cup and American Ninja Warrior), but I think I like this system.
We’ve been really busy on our property setting up watering systems for fruit trees and raspberries, raising baby chicks and introducing them to our existing flock, keeping all the other animals fed, and spending time working on some inside/life skills (cooking, teaching my 8-year old how to sew a pillowcase at his request, mini entrepreneur plans, and increasing typing speed, to name a few!)…and I feel like summer is flying by! How are your summer schedules going???
4) Honey Slip Thoughts: I needed some serious help for a see-through dress situation (so pretty but even with the lining, it is eye-poppingly see through) and remembered my friend, Corinne, recommending the honey slip. After ordering, wearing, and crying from happiness, my main thought is: why haven’t I ordered one of these before now?
Not only did it solve my too-old-to-show-undies dress problem, but I have a feeling it’s going to become a staple of my Sunday under-wardrobe. Comfy, simple, and kind of a lifesaver.
5) Cookie Thoughts: I know you’ll probably roll your eyes thinking I’m dramatic, but I legit made some of the best cookies of my life last month. And then I made them again and again. And I took them to a family reunion and made my friends eat them, and the consensus is: life changing cookies are coming to this blog SOON. Here’s the dilemma. I already have a fantastically delicious and easy pie recipe typed up and scheduled to be posted Monday. How badly do you want this cookie recipe? lmk and I’ll see what I can do. 🙂
Later, skaters! Thanks for being here.
And as always, tell me all your OWN thoughts below. I love them. Each and every one.
What ingredients are in the cookie?
Want the cookie recipe
Brilliant recipe! I’ve adopted it as my go-to and it couldn’t be easier.
Oops, I thought I was still on the Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie page. This one is next on my list. 😉
Summer has flown by! I’ve also realized i need to make checking your blog more of a habit. As for Podcasts, see below for my regular listens.
Talk to me Tayla*
The 8 Cow Life*
Better than happy*
Happier in Hollywood
Happier with Gretchen Rubin
School of Greatness with Lewis Howe’s
The cultural Hall
Loveumentary
Awesome with Alison*
The rich Roll podcast, specifically the one with John McAvoy
3 in 30 Takeaways for Mom’s*
Geneaolgy guys
Genealogy gems
Side hustle school*
We’ve roadtripped with the kids this summer, and they love the following Podcasts:
Circle Round from WBUR
Sparkle Stories
Reading bug
For Apple products,Overcast is the best podcast app, and for my Android phone, PocketCasts ($5) is the best. Hat tip- speed up the podcast and you can listen to more!
Also, would love to hear you as a guest on some of the above Podcasts! (The ones with asterisk might be good…)
5) Cookie Thoughts: I know you’ll probably roll your eyes thinking I’m dramatic, but I legit made some of the best cookies of my life last month. And then I made them again and again. And I took them to a family reunion and made my friends eat them, and the consensus is: life changing cookies are coming to this blog SOON. Here’s the dilemma. I already have a fantastically delicious and easy pie recipe typed up and scheduled to be posted Monday. How badly do you want this cookie recipe? lmk and I’ll see what I can do.
Hand it over, Mel . . . PLEASE!!!
I posted them weeks ago! https://www.melskitchencafe.com/smores-chocolate-chip-cookies/
I just listened to “McDonalds Broke My Heart.”
ARE YOU WORKING ON A BEEF TALLOW FRENCH FRY YET?!!!!!!! Please do! And please post soon. I love French fries, and I am prepared to be amazed!
(Thanks for the podcast recommendation 🙂 If you like British humor you should check out Cumberbin’s Treasure. It’s was a comedy radio show about some airline pilots. (They really like cheese, if food is required in your podcasts 🙂 ) They don’t make new episodes anymore, but all 27 they did are on there and they are hilarious.)
Just wanted to let you know that your Friday thoughts posts are some of my favorite. Thanks for being so willing to share, it really feels like I’m just having a nice conversation with a friend
My eyes have become really sensitive to mascara in the last few years (my eyeballs feel super dry; the skin is fine but I end up perpetually squinting which defeats the benefits of mascara making me look more awake)! I first tried natural mascaras but ended up with the same problem – finally found “tubing” mascaras, which coat your lashes like a tube and slide off when wet (no makeup remover necessary). I first tried the more-expensive Blinc option but found it flaked a lot; someone recommended L’Oreal Paris Double Extend Beauty Tubes and it’s way cheaper and stays on better. Still very slightly irritating but right now it’s the best thing I’ve found!
Favorite mascara?
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Hi Mel,
Beautiful photo of the chicks. It captures something poignant, and there is a vulnerability in their youthful energy.
Your family is also lovely in their human youthful exuberance. A captured moment of sheer joy;)
PS: I made 2 of your posted cookie recipes tonight; perfect chocolate chip, and the smores chocolate chip. Harder to tell when smores were done. Followed recipe exactly. I have purchased marshmallow bits in Target and in my local grocery in Los Angeles, a Kroger store.
Thanks for the inspiration; we’ll see how the reactions are tomorrow when my son takes them to his office.
Carol
Dear amazing Mel…
Just want you to know that if I want a recipe to turn out well, you’re my go to!
Just want to know if it is against your religion to post 2 recipes…the cookies and the pie? haha Thanks for your cute blog and amazing life. Your family and life are so fun to follow Jerianne Hanks from California
Podcast recs:
Glorious in the Mundane
What Should I Read Next?
Happier with Gretchen Rubin
Bridgetown Audio Podcast
That Sounds Fun with Annie F. Downs
The 1-3-20 Podcast
My favorite podcasts about motherhood are 3 in 30 takeaways for moms, power of moms, power of families, and extraordinary moms. Very insightful and inspiring and leave me with new motivation to keep trying!
I can’t wait to try those cookies! I’ve been looking for a new recipe but nothing has been speaking to me lately. I whipped up a regular chocolate chip batch for the 4th and threw in lots of different chocolates. They were tasty of course but I want to try those above stat! The Summer is going well but it’s almost over. My kids start school on August 1. It’s so crazy. 8 fast weeks of Summer is all they had.
I’m all about random thoughts! My brain is full of them. Happy Weekend!
Has the recipe been posted yet? Please paste a link if so as I can’t find it. Than you!
https://www.melskitchencafe.com/smores-chocolate-chip-cookies/
Cookie recipe STAT & please
Waiting….
I need the cookie recipe!
Podcasts: This American life, how I built thus, StoryCorps (fave!), the moth, snap judgement (also incredible), the life coach school with Brooke Castillo, 3 in 30 takeaways for moms, up first, help me understand the Book of Mormon, the way I heard it with mike Rowe,
Thanks for all the recommendations!
You can keep your pie recipe…who needs “dead fruit”? 🙂
I’m (impatiently) waiting for the new cookie recipe…
Can’t wait to add it to my collection–and see how it compares.
I LOVE revisionist history too! Another favorite is 30 for 30, but beware the Wrigley Field episode, soooo much swearing (I don’t mind swearing but even my fluent-in-swearing husband walked into the room and said, “woah” when I was just two minutes into the episode).
Mr. Big mascara has been my most favorite find! It’s around $25 at Ulta but it’s lasted almost a year and I’ve gotten several compliments on my eyelashes, which has never happened before. I started using the R+F lash boosting serum stuff at the same time though but my eyelashes were under average.
Off topic, have you tried Native Deoderant? It’s my favorite natural deoderant. It ALMOST holds up to summers in the south but I just switch to an OTC brand for June-August then it’s back to Native. It’s the only brand I’ve tried that lasts all day.
Thanks for posting all your amazing recipes, I love your blog!
Thanks for the tips!
I second the Native deodorant! Love it!! Vanilla coconut is lovely!
Pretty cool that Jennifer Garner uses your pizza recipe and posted it on her instagram page!
And that it’s now posted on People.com!
I know, crazy, huh?